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KW_规则应该遵守还是打破?

学员:

关于规则,有人认为是用来打破的;而有些人则认为是用来维持秩序,所以必须遵守,但在我看来这不是一个铜板的两面吗?

肯恩:

这表示只要从小我的角度去看,你就不可能赢。因为当你违反规则,就是违背权威;不违反规则,就是害怕权威。因此,害怕打破规则,谨小慎微地遵守所有规则,在这背后,你其实是在害怕,如果没有规范的话,我就会打破所有的规则。还记得我当初犯的罪吗?我破坏了上主的规则,从祂那里偷了东西。所以如果不注意的话,我怕自己会不断地再犯。

因此,我需要一个能限制我的规范。于是,我用道德的形式规范自己,做一个不打破规则的诚实的好人。

学员:

所以还是权威的问题?

肯恩:

当然。基本上,若当初我不指控自己欺诈了权威并对祂行窃,这原本不会成为一个议题。我为此深感内疚,唯恐自己又犯一次同样的罪。

所以我的小我说,我绝不会再犯,我会变得完美无瑕,以此向上主证明我对自己当初的所作所为有多懊悔和抱歉。并且我还想告诉祂,自天人分裂之后,我就很完美,我只做过那一次,后来就一直很乖,再也没犯过罪了。然而,这些说法只会让远古的分裂一刻变得真实。事实上,我从未好好地看着那个相信自己曾经对上主行窃的想法说:对,我是偷了上主的东西,但那只是我做的一个梦而已,在实相中,它从未发生过。

 

原文:肯恩

翻译:王敬伟

润饰:一心、Tami

 

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Q&A

QuestionIf you have the attitude that rules were made to be broken, or if you have the attitude that I'm going to live by the rules, because rules were made to keep order, isn't that opposite sides of the same coin

A: which really means from the ego's point of view, you can't win. Because if you break the rules, you're going against authority, and if you don't break them and you're afraid of authority. But underneath that, if you're terrified of breaking rules and you're absolutely scrupulous in keeping all the rules, Then what you're really doing is saying, I'm terrified that if I'm on my own and there's no structure, I'm going to break every rule that there is, because remember what I originally did I broke the rule of God and I stole from God. And if I'm not careful, Ill keep doing it again and again.

Therefore, I need structure that will stop me. And so my structure then takes the form of morality that a good person and honest person doesn't break the rules.

Q: So its still the authority problem?  

A: Sure, because it would not be an issue for me if I did not first accuse myself have originally fraud the authority and stealing from it. And I'm terrified of doing it again because I'm so guilty.

So what my ego says, I will never ever do it again. I'll be absolutely perfect. And that's what we'll prove to God how sorry I am and I can go to God. I say, you see, Ive been very good and I'm really sorry about what I did then, and Ive only done it once. That's all. And ever since that ontological moment, Ive been absolutely perfect. And all that does is make that original ontological moment real. When I do believe, I stole from God, and what Ive never done is act. So what my ego says, I will never ever do it again. I'll be absolutely perfect. And that's what we'll prove to God how sorry I am and I can go to God. I say, you see, Ive been very good and I'm really sorry about what I did then, and Ive only done it once. That's all. And ever since that ontological moment, Ive been absolutely perfect. And all that does is make that original ontological moment real. When I do believe, I stole from God, and what Ive never done is actually look at that thought, say, yes, I stole from God, but that's only true within my dream. In reality it never happened.

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